I would not worry too much about what others think. Unfortunately, there are always people that will judge us , but true friends or partners will come to understand what you are going through. It takes a time and social life is never "normal", but it's worthwhile to take the time to surrounding yourself with who understand. I spend several years in social isolation due to pain/symptoms, but now I have learned to accept my limitations.
Don't let being accept by a man or someone make you feel any less. I understand it's easier said then done. I still struggle with that at times, but your pain is very real and you deserve to be someone who is understanding and accepting of that.
In the past, I have said to people that I have a chronic condition that I don't feel discussing yet, but if I may share in future if our relationship ever reaches that point. For many , it was too blunt and harsh which turned awkward quickly and I never heard from them again. There are few who understood and we are still friends today.
It many be bit of extreme approach, but all we go through there just isn't time to waste between million doctor apts, dealing with chronic pain/symptoms and work. I believe that time is precious and it's so imp to surrounding yourself with people who are positive and supportive.

DrK, thank you so much for that! I’ve always tried to exercise, i dance for a good 30 minutes to an house every morning. I just wish there was a way to not schedule my social life around my periods.